@kdfrawg shit!!! i was consistently in the 20s and that is far too low. got up to 80 with proper supplementation adn then i was slack and didn't take it for awhile so the last time i twas tested it was about 55 i think? borderline normal. i'm sure it's more like 20 now.
@kdfrawg that's for sure. not so long ago there was this guy whinging about trans women and fat women hitting on him on tinder. Except he was 'swiping right' (indicating his interest) on everyone the algorithm matched him with, so it's not like it wasn't entirely his fault for being a fucking idiot. then went on and on about how it was his right to complain about women with penises or something. I know most people are a bit more polite than that, lol. But can I really fault someone for having a preference for a type of genitalia (broad categories as opposed to the aesthetic appearance - i think people who get weirded out by how a vulva or penis looks are stupid)? probably not. i mean, i'm already limited by who's interested in me because of race, professional category, that i have cats, my personality, blah blah, so I guess it's just another one of those things. though at the moment i'm too paralysed to make a move on anyone in case they think me hitting on them is awful because i'm trans O_o
@matigo I have all this secret 'yeah but I'm actually crazy and horrible in relationships and look awful with my clothes off' feelings inside personally :(
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@matigo as usual being found attractive is weird to me. but i think sometimes people find me attractive and it's too surprising for me and my lack of self confidence… haha?
@matigo I think as we age we get less superficial - people 25 or under are still technically 'adolescents' in some ways anyway when it comes to brain development, and are the pickiest (and least happy) as far as I can tell, with their relationships