I had a big increase in clumsiness in the last month, plus feeling weak and low energy and fasciculations. I'm pretty sure now that it's the vitamin D deficiency again, seeing as the last time it was tested I was borderline. Took a loading dose today, will take it more regularly now, once I find the huge bottle of vitamin D tablets that I've misplaced. Hilariously this particular bottle was given to me by a hapless pharmacy lady who congratulated me on my pregnancy and then felt mortified she was wrong.
@matigo hey, that's really cool. I think I have a lot of internalised transphobia. Part of it is my own previous shitty attitudes towards trans women before I admitted my gender to myself (not me thinking they're bad or unworthy of relationships, but assuming I wouldn't be into them). Except I actually have zero ability to tell who is trans and who isn't, except in hindsight, and I find some trans women really attractive. I just assume the worst of what other people would think about dating me, based on what I used to think, or what I used to think I thought.
OK, I'm going to ask you all an awkward question- please answer honestly! Say you were single and met someone you clicked with, were physically attracted to and really like and had a big crush on. Then you find out/they tell you they're trans (ie have transitioned, and happen to 'pass really well'). How do you feel? Do you still go ahead with things? How do you respond? Etc.
(am aware that there are a lot of people for whom it would - politely - be a dealbreaker, don't worry. my default assumption is that people think it's a deal breaker but I'm trying to work out if that's correct or not, as i never make a move on anyone just in case)
@whoisashygirl yep that's my past few weeks summed up nicely. hopefully the weekend adn next week is ok
@kdfrawg I was under the impression that the stupidity was likely to eventually provide an actual reason for impeachment?