@kdfrawg sometimes it verges on emotional impotence because i think there might be some people for whom there is potential but i never make the move :(
@kdfrawg agreed. well so far it doesn't seem that i've felt strongly enough in the past few years to overcome my fears of people getting weird
@kdfrawg i think some people aren't good with hints Oo. but also maybe i need to be more assertive with turning people down. except that's hard when people will hint and hint and hint but not ever actually make a move themselves. as to making a move when i'm actually into someone, i suppose i might have the incentive of if i don't then they'll get passive aggressive, but that seems like backwards logic OO