@matigo hey, that's really cool. I think I have a lot of internalised transphobia. Part of it is my own previous shitty attitudes towards trans women before I admitted my gender to myself (not me thinking they're bad or unworthy of relationships, but assuming I wouldn't be into them). Except I actually have zero ability to tell who is trans and who isn't, except in hindsight, and I find some trans women really attractive. I just assume the worst of what other people would think about dating me, based on what I used to think, or what I used to think I thought.