@matigo woohoo!!!
// @lechindianer
@kdfrawg true. and some people can't seem to stay away from emotional pain in relationships. maybe i'm the same :(
// @indigo
@kdfrawg FFFFFFFFFFFUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUx10c
// @indigo
@kdfrawg tbh i've become more and more wary of people who have an abusive background myself because of some clearly personality disordered people i was stupid enough to hook up with. however most people who've had an abusive childhood aren't personality disordered, and some people with a normal childhood are. but in general i'm not actually that good at picking up on the red flags for personality disorder- something i need to work on. because quite aside from relationship woes, coworkers with severe personality disorders are really bad news
// @indigo
@kdfrawg pain is a great motivator even when being rejected doesn't hurt anymore? it's so weird. i guess what i'm really afraid of these days is people being vengeful because they're rejected, or people being assholes because they think i'm into them and bullying me. this fear is not limited to coworkers with crushes, but coworkers with crushes scare me for this reason.
// @indigo
@kdfrawg act5ually that's a good point… if people are too good looking people stop hitting on them because they're too scared to
// @indigo
@kdfrawg jsut imagine if you live forever AND the weather is bad O_O
// @indigo