@kdfrawg tbh i've become more and more wary of people who have an abusive background myself because of some clearly personality disordered people i was stupid enough to hook up with. however most people who've had an abusive childhood aren't personality disordered, and some people with a normal childhood are. but in general i'm not actually that good at picking up on the red flags for personality disorder- something i need to work on. because quite aside from relationship woes, coworkers with severe personality disorders are really bad news
// @indigo