@matigo something like that, I think! I'm less stressed and less busy and happier about myself and my looks. But evidently my self esteem isn't really wonderful yet so maybe it's best to wait anyway ?
@matigo as far as I can tell, the first is always the most settled child, no idea why! But the first can be the most difficult pregnancy and labour in some ways too.
It's thought that for whatever reason (oxytocin??) people who give birth selectively forget how bad labour is, so that they don't stop at just one baby automatically!
I'm so glad that whatever biological urges I had to get pregnant and have babies are totally gone. Haha.
Not because I don't want kids. But j don't want to go through pregnancy
// @ukhaiku
I don't really get why after all these years of being scared of romantic attention I'm suddenly feeling needy and like I need to date someone RIGHT NOW!! STAT!!!
@matigo Ah, Alien. Such a good movie. Love it and Aliens about as much, but for different reasons.
Found an interesting review of Alien, written by Isaac Asimov:
