@matigo as far as I can tell, the first is always the most settled child, no idea why! But the first can be the most difficult pregnancy and labour in some ways too.
It's thought that for whatever reason (oxytocin??) people who give birth selectively forget how bad labour is, so that they don't stop at just one baby automatically!
I'm so glad that whatever biological urges I had to get pregnant and have babies are totally gone. Haha.
Not because I don't want kids. But j don't want to go through pregnancy
// @ukhaiku