@kdfrawg nods yep i get you. i feel that way about having biological children. like… i don't think my genetics are that amazing, and it doesnt' matter that much to me. adoption is almost impossible in australia though unless you foster, and then my fear would be my emotional capacity for looking after a kid with emotional needs and issues because i have so many myself. but for me kids isn't an absolutely necessary thing- because i have issues among other things haha
// @jws