so it turns out that someone i know (who i think is wonderful) actually did a talk a few years back about breaking off her engagement and being openly gay. but single, and unable to marry (because australia sucks. it was a talk that was about gay marriage). and now she's with a guy. and idk, it's like seeing her back then… she was so confident and invigorated. she's still amazing and competent and cool now but in comparison… NQR. :(