@kdfrawg and yet!
I always find it interesting when straight (non-trans) guys complain about not being able to meet women. not because i don't get why it would be hard for them to meet women- it's usually obvious from their personality (disorder)- but in a way that i had any success whatsoever at all. like, despite their boasting about their long term relationships and making fun of me for being perpetually single and bad at relationships, i was still one of the first of my group of friends at uni to love and be loved back properly. some of them still haven't experienced it, even now, 12 years later.