@kdfrawg sounds about right. the starts of my relationships are often exhilarating and almost movie-like (one of my exes remarked on being with me as being like being in a movie, which was funny/weird) but you know, i get that feeling in my gut often when i know there's something not quite rigt about the situation, and it's often the case. i guess that's what you get for having relationships tho- most of them ARE NQR, and some people just happen to be very lucky O_o