@kdfrawg yeah absolutely. It's not so difficult if you have it up on your dating profile (I do) or if someone openly hits on you the first time you meet and you slip it into conversation (which is what I usually do). But yeah, when there's someone who you didn't expect have a whopping great crush on you and you don't know if they know, and you don't know … Eesh, super awkward. Not all trans people "pass" so I guess it's one of those weird things.

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