@jws ahh yeah, interesting! i always wonder how the reproduction thing plays out in people's heads. like, all the women around me seem to be talking about BABIES all the time. but i don't feel like this is even representative of what all women actually think about (i think it's groupthink coming out). and so i don't know if the 'well i can't get you pregnant anyway' is a good thing because less anxiety about pregnancy or is bad because EVERYONE WANTS BABBY