@skematica omg yes. in fact it's often much subtler - or even not that subtle! so a friend of mine sent me this 'totes romantic' clip from a 90s sci fi show fairly recently and I swear the guy just slammed his fist against the wall next to this chick he had cornered, right, because she was playing 'hard to get' or having cold feet or something. FFS. it actually made me kind of really uncomfortable